Shorts~ Your friend came across with much accurate info. I ride a Harley Sportster Xl883L in an (International) MC. With my spouse as a member & myself a 'support' maiden, I can ride with the club on my mc to any event, open ride, party, cause's (Relay for life-I am also a multiple cancer survivor) which the MC supports me in force. But I cannot ride alone/solo with my vest on,that makes me a target..
The guys are LEO's, CEO's, teachers, military, attorneys, nurses, Dr's. etc. (cause I know some of them) & have in depth made sure, with me as a maiden on her own bike, that I recognize, understand, acknowledge, & abide the bylaws. Some of those 1%/outlaws can be very nasty off the cuff or when sensing a perceived threat to their colors or territory. Control issues, sheesh~8/
Some of our members have been put in Trauma ICU just for riding thru the 'wrong' towns, stopping for a brew/meal & the 'wrong' bars, & stripped of their patches. Then there are those that have alter egos & will open the door @ a store for you, etc. The size, color & placement of any patch is important in ANY MC or group.
The internet IS an open hwy of info if one is curious enough to keep up with today's laws/events. ABATE is one I hope to become part of when finances are in better shape. Just my 2 cents, ^_^. God bless
p.s. I would love to ride with a group that fits ME, wearing the patch proudly., i.e. NA, ADHD, ACOA, PTSD,VERTIGO, etc. (would look good on my harley in a commercial/movie as an extra. ^_^ (IOMC, A&E Nov.3, ironordermc.com) OK, MOTORMOUTH WILL STOP NOW:-)